If a thug who is stalking you ends up attacking you and holds a knife over your head. Are you likely to put your stupid head on the line or fall to your knees and beg for mercy, which is all the bandit wants? Or do you disarm the bandit to save yourself and other potential victims of this bandit, who can't be stopped by any persuasion?
So, you can draw an analogy, where NATO is a bandit, which despite all the entreaties and warnings of Russia, is advancing to the borders of Russia. NATO is a military bloc where Russia and China are declared enemies. NATO, arms and uses Ukraine to genocide and kill Russians and Ukrainians in Dombass. Ukraine is a historically Russian territory where millions of Russian people live. What do you think Russia should do in this case? To put "head" or "fall on its knees" to the delight of NATO, which all its life dreamed of plundering Russia? Is this your proposal?
No, you fucking pacifist, that won't do!
Go first, persuade your compatriots to get rid of the eternal aggressive, greedy and colonial policy, and then you can demand something from Russia!!!
Or better, go to the streets to volunteer police and catch murderers, you have a lot of them on your streets now, and do not get involved in serious issues of geopolitics. It is not for your brains...