i suffered when i was young coz they told me there is a big pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. there is no pot.

Monkey, I feel sorry for you, honestly, because you are far too jaded.

You have done many things in life for the wrong reasons, it seems - either to win some girl, or because some friends told you its the thing to do. I will not stop saying it: You need to do what makes YOU happy. Nothing attracts a girl more than to see a man who is in a happy life.... now if you think you need money to have a happy life, then the problem is with you.

1. I do not go into a man's bedroom, either, because I do not think it's appropriate. It does not mean I think he will rape me . But I act respectable in this situation.

2. Yes, sometimes people are jerks

3. Yes, sometimes when you do the right thing, people do not understand - it happens for me too. So what are my options? Why do I do the right thing? I do what I feel is right because that is what I want to do, not because of the reaction I get. And I sleep very well at night (well, not really, but it's not this that I lose sleep over). So you have to choose, if you feel good about yourself doing what is right, then do it. Forget these bad reactions.

All women are different. Some you do have to play as if you are not interested. Some, you have to show them a lot of attention as be quite persistent.

Yes, too many people are two-faced, and say different than they do, it's true. But there are some wonderful people out there, too, so be on your guard, but don;'t confuse the good for the bad!

Monkey, where are you from? Paris?

"How To Attract Women ?"
=> Money, money, money !

Landru wrote:"How To Attract Women ?"
=> Money, money, money !

Your jokes were working just fine!

ok rafale i agree with some of ur points...
anyway i'll dedicate a song about my situation for u:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6g6g2mvI ... hg6lzh6MBs
this is of course the opposite of PW's situation...

it is a fact that ted bundy still gets tons of fan mail and marriage proposals from women, as do many other serial killers. everyday you see television documentaries and news reports about men meeting and killing their first second and third wives/girlfriends. how many single mothers receive child support in the united states because of absent fathers? what is the general conclusion you reach from these examples about what kind of men women are attracted to in general? I think people put too much emphasis on money. it is not so much money in this feminist society in which women for the most part have financial independence. women seek impulsive, aggressive, exciting, dominant and extremely violent and crazy and or famous men above all else. since women do not need men economically in the united states the stable, hard working man is useless to them.

Niceman111,

I agree with one point... it is not all about money!! Very true. But it's not just these aggressive and impulsive men that get the women. For every one that is writing to Ted Bundy, how many hundreds are looking for a kind, stable man that they will feel secure with?

Monkey, I am glad you are opening your mind some. I know the game is a frustration. But please, do not let yourself become bitter, my dear, you have to stay positive.

Just like men, there are too many different types of women, and each has a specific desire in a man. I still stick to my point that it is the best a man can do, to make himself attractive to a woman, if he focuses on making himself happy in his own life first. We want to look at a man, and say to ourselves "wow, he has a life I want to be a part of". This does not mean MONEY, it means happiness in whatever form you find it for yourself. I liked your video (I was especially jealous of he shoulder-fired missile she had ), and I prefer you change your thinking some, because I do not want to see you become this man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JcFgL2q ... ure=relmfu

Hello Rafale, I fully agree with you on everything you say.

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