monkey wrote:again i give u all example of talk vesus action - husband is big businessman - coincidence....ok, this guy even married before - that actually does not matter either does it-is there a lack of single men who were not married before in USA???

Who are you referring to? This does not make sense. Someone is no longer eligible for love or as the right man because he is divorced?? Do you have any idea on the statistics of divorce in the USA???? Good luck finding a man (or woman) over the age of 25 that is NOT divorced! And who is this "big businessman"?

It seems to me the problem is in your thinking. You buy every stereotype you see. If a woman is with a man with money, she is with him simply for that reason, and its the only thing you will accept. Forget the fact we are two well educated individuals that have many things in common and that truly fell in love. It's impossible for you to follow this, because we have too many preconceived notions. You think Sophie, too, she is with Pierre for some money, or he is with her for her beauty only?

This goes both ways. I am divorced, too, and my first husband was noting but a user who expected me to work like a mule while he had all the benefit of my good salary. We have plenty animals instincts on both sides, it's something you do not have to tell a biologist. But what separates us from the animals is our ability to ACT based on thought.

It's clear now why you have trouble getting women. If I begin to date a man like you, then see your true thinking about women, it would be WW3 between us. I am well educated, and the man I speak of is an ALGERIAN man. You think he will put up with me treating him as a dog? It was his ex, raised in the culture you speak of, with NO education who treated him as a dog, expecting him to be no more than the source of her money. No care for companionship or love.

Look, the point is, there are plenty bad women who are looking for the money pit, but the fact you are putting them all in one group is proof of your ignorance. Because you had some bad experience does not make all women like this. If you have this idea in your head and treat them in this way, then you will end up with exactly what you expect to find.

PS - all HUMAN SPEECH is originated in the frontal cortex, honey, not just in women... and what the hell do you mean by "primitive brain"??? I have dissected human brains many times but my professors failed to point out the "primitive brain" to me, so please, you will have to use some more modern medical terminology.

i come to porn site to be in the company of men and ask pierre some questions - but i am being distracted by a woman even here-as i said this is the world nowadays-women hanging out at porn sites..
i want to get back to the questions i asked pierre-could master P help me answer my questions in the earlier posts so i may 'serve' women better...pierre agreed with my sentence, but no advice yet - i belive pierre is now in 'thinking' mode' to give best answer - i hope he is not biased now that there are women in this site...

My mistake. I thought he gave you an answer, and you were not satisfied...

Sorry it's so offensive to you that I am a paying costumer here... Good luck to you.

I'll be back in the kitchen if you guys need me...

look rafale, it's not ur fault, u r trying to help.
i'm angry, i try to ask questions to PW, but instead of him answering u come in the way. i think women cannot answer because their mind is torn between rational world and their old instincts - they are confused by this - and therefore confuse men. PW has discovered some things about this - so lets wait and see what PW says ok -let's pester him for good answers to help all man and womankind...ok

Sorry, I didn't mean to be in your way, of course, as I said, it looked to me he gave an answer, in my experience here, pestering doesn't accomplish much with him. I also fail to see how attacking me personally accomplished much more for you than to elongate this thread...

Of course, as I said before, I hope he can give you a better answer, but this business with woman being confused... its just silly. I am sorry you had some bad experience. There are plenty of gold digging women - but this does not make them all this way. I see plenty of men using women, too... I do not know where you live, but much of it has to do with culture.

It's true, many woman, like me, prefer a more aggressive man ( if you see the sex scenes that I prefer here you will understand!) . This is the part that goes back to instincts. As I have said here before - look at he mating behavior of other animals. Women also tend to want to be cared for and feel protected - sometimes financially. I think the reasons for this are often more social than some primitive predisposition, and the evidence supports this. But that is as far as it goes! Beyond that, we are no more confused than men. And PW will tell you, he's been burned by a few of these women you see on the site... there is no secret infallible practice to avoid this.

So no hard feelings, and I hope PW... or someone, helps you to find your answer.

I haven't understood anything at all.
Maybe I tooki it the wrong way, but if a woman answer your questions about women's mentality or psichology, it's all confuse (because they're confused by who-knows-what old instincts -I'm still trying to decipher "old" in that sentence- and a woman also confuses men) but if Pierre (as we all know, very woman-like in mentality and thinking) answers, it's ok, and shows you eternal paradise.

Pierre has achieved his fame and success (and money) because he is a very clever man, who used (impossible nowadays in many cases because he is too famous for that) his mental superiority on women much weaker than him psicologically. He "convinced" them to do this and to do that, and we are happy with it (otherwise we wouldn't be here, would we?).

But that is one thing and thinking that Pierre knows women minds better than themselves is nonsense (we are in the 21st century, even today is not the same as 15 years ago, today all is at hand with the power of the web, so there is nothing misterious about).

i think women cannot answer because their mind is torn between rational world and their old instincts

Oh my god I think I've been put into a time machine and I live with an Amish family or something....

What can I said more ? Rafale and Spanishfan have answered better than I can !!!
I think Monkey you should not go so deep inside the daily question you put in your mind and take the life and women as they are, and from that build up or not some personnal story with them. If you miss it today, it will be OK tomorrow, no rush no nervosity just keep cool and accept the fact we need them has they need us !!!

PW

the real secret to getting girls, and although it is extremely simple and it's kind of like reinventing the wheel, took me 20 years to actually figure it out. you have to have what is required, WHERE it is most important. so in other words if you are an average guy looking guy in a room full of ugly guys, you will be perceived as desirable because of the relative shortage of good looks in the room. if you are a wealthy person in a poor country,then you will be perceived as desirable because of the economic situation. I am financially stable, but live in new york city where millionaires are a dime a dozen. so it does nothing to help me get a girl. I see many wealthy people sitting alone at bars trying to meet women. now if you put these people in eastern Europe or south america then they would meet tons of women. no disrespect to pierre, but is not a coincidence that the most beautiful of the girls he fucked come from desperately poor countries. remember put yourself in a situation where you will be unique and desirable. GO ABROAD. forget about hopeless theorizing, pick up artist techniques and psychoanalysis of women. they are actually very simple. I don't know where you live but the united states and western countries are hopeless because of feminism and the relatively stable economies. women do not need men, and so their pickiness is increased a thousand fold. if a super handsome or wealthy man comes along, they will go for him but they will never settle for anything less than that perfect image of prince charming.

Niceman111,

I think it's true to an extent, but there are still plenty of us even here in the USA that still romanticize our relationship to be based on love, not money or status. But here is reality - we are ALL being picky, even the men... You say it's hard to hold onto a lady in NYC, but I doubt you've tried with an intelligent, friendly... and really ugly girl. And why should you? You don't want that. Mr. "Monkey" here wants to make me to be some criminal because I, as an educated person, wanted to be with another educated person.

In my situation, it's my HOPE he will leave his great job and join me here full time. Money is not a big concern for me because not only am I capable of making plenty of it for both of us, I know I have found a man with drive and no matter what, he is not the type that is happy to sit and let me support him. This is the attraction for me - not the money, but the attitude. Because I am this way, I think I deserve someone who can match me in this.

Physical attraction is important, but less so with women. Not to mention it varies so much from one person to another. It's a good example, myself, I am in a fantastic relationship with PW's "twin" - and for me he is so, so sexy! Though I understand many women would not agree, but perhaps I would not find their choice in men all that appealing. So, it's a difficult game, there.

Honestly, I think too many men come across lacking confidence, and it's the big problem. I keep saying this, it's so true! If a man does not present himself as having a happy and full life, then why will the woman want to be a part of it? If a man in your situation seems very content and fulfilled in his life, confident in himself (not arrogant), I would be interested more so than with a man in the same situation that seems desperate to find someone, and tells me he is lonely. This second man, I want to be his friend and confidant, but not his girlfriend, because it's too much pressure to be the thing that "completes" a man's life when the relationship is just starting out.

i will talk in 2 parts, with pierre, and his assistant.

1. to pierre's assistant:
you want to be with a man who is confident - who is the man who is confident? - the man who has success and power. how many poor men who wark hard with just a dream could be confident in the beginning?
where are the women when a man is starting out in life?
when he is working hard, no one is there for him except god and his dog - but when money comes women come with it. this is fact. But you take a survey of 1,000 women - will even one of them honestly admit that?
-if women are with a man when he is down and out - will he not be loyal to her for life and cherish her? if he is disloyal even once, will not his conscience kill him everyday?
-women feel ashamed to admit they like money, so they use better sounding word: confidence. Confidence=money.
2. to pierre
i respect you - you might make porn but you are honest about it, but women who chase money say they chase 'confidence'...I have asked multiple questions in detail with numbers in previous post - but master P's answer has been non specific - no detailed techniques, just have 'right attitude'. How much of PW is due to skill, and how much due to environment? for instance if pw was born in saudi arabia in 1956, will he be what he is today? or if he made porn in 1970's will we have castings? The timing of communist countries falling and woodman looking for new faces coincided in 1990's. but there is something in PW - maybe he himself does not know why he is good - this is called 'unconscious competence'...i might need to come and do research on pw - not like what all HBO people did, but proper scientific study.
elements of PW:
1. physicality - strong sex drive during the act
2. being in the right environment -paris, east europe 1990s
3. mentality - convincing girls - if we say pw only attract eastern europe girls - we know pw has been f**king all the fashion and tv stars in france before that.
My request pierre, is to try and clarify your methods, maybe take time to think about how you approached each women, what mistake you made? how u learned each time - probably you should blog about this - so that u don't forget the points. Then you could gather all materials scattered in this forum and your blog, make it into nice book for collectors. Many authors do it this way now. You mentioned you earlier missed the internet boat. i would like to suggest for you to discuss your techniques here so that eventually it could become a book. If you one day just sit down to write it would be difficult. better do in small steps, then easy to make into book.
Why it is so improtant that you write about ur sexual methods? - this is because, hundreds of years from now this will be your legacy - people will read it in wonder. How wonderful it is to read the writings of cicero from rome, epictetus, alexander, casablanca - such interesting historical figures. If due to any reason you die before your book gets published, at least fans can understand some techniques from this forum hopefully - so i hope u'll write, for the sake of legacy, and sharing ur gathered wisdom among men, so that we may coexist in hapiness and peace with women, thank you again for your service to mankind.