Dear master P,
you have been actively engaged with women since you were in the tv/fashion business...
in fact u mentioned how u were f**king ur 2nd wife's friend, to whom she mentioned u don't sleep around...
My question is master P,
what have u understood about women in all these years that help you get them?
conventionally guys would show off big muscle, drive big cars etc to impress women.
what u do in real life and in porn to attract women? for instance, ur 2nd wife's friend - knowing u r married, still had an affair with u...
U don't have gym toned muscle or head full of fabio hair either...
like someone asking the matador about the bull, tiger woods about golf ball,or the snake charmer about cobras, i ask of u, to shed some light on what attracts women - we do not plan to f**k thousands like u, but merely to find ways attract the women we have fallen in love with - to start family and settle down...thank you very much for ur advice...

this question has Been answered numerous times !
I have always use my brain first since I was a child and a poor guy ! Women are not like us, they care more of the inside than the outside appearance !

PW

It's very true! Any man I have dated or had any relationship with in my life, always had some other interest in them BEFORE I found a physical attraction to them.

Not to mention that physical attraction in woman can be developed - it is the same for men, but woman are more effected by this. It is a proven fact, most humans are attracted by the familiar. It's how a small child can recognize his parent in a crowd. How we can spot something that belongs to us among a pile. The more we view something - like a man's face - the more we become drawn to it. This will not help you start the conversation, of course, but some good info for once you make the contact.

thank you for answering again master P...
1. U mentioned u used ur brain first, could u give few examples among ur many relationships...
2. U mentioned they care about the inside more than the outside...what aspect of ur inside? - ur hobbies? ur courage? what is it?
3. if they 'like ur inside as in ur integrity, morality - why would they want to have affair when u are already married? I don't understand...
4. the new breed of frustrated men, who feel asking a girl out on a date becoming like 'job interview' - "how much u earn, what is ur future plan?" have started becoming pick up artists. Approach many unkown women at clubs trying to get dates - it's sad...no more love. So their theory is - women like to date rockstars, drunk bikers, drug addicts is because they look for 'alpha' male with 'confidence'...the office worker man who tries to be polite to her is dismissed as being a 'weak beta' male...they rather be 3rd girlfirend of 'alpha male' then complain this guy beat them...So ur affair - the girl know u r married, in fact she is friend with ur wife - why she wanted to fuck with you?
once again thank you for your patience and advice...

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:this question has Been answered numerous times !
I have always use my brain first since I was a child and a poor guy ! Women are not like us, they care more of the inside than the outside appearance !

PW

le cerveau est une espèce en danger !!!

radioactif wrote:le cerveau est une espèce en danger !!!

Nothing wrong with persistence... for many it's not an easy answer.

Monkey,

I think you are wrong on some of your thinking, and maybe it's part of your trouble.

When he says we care about the inside first, it's too deep to break it down into one category or another - and each girl is different! I know some friends that are happy to find a man that seems "wounded" that can be taken care of. Some want a strong-minded man. The point in PW's business is to very quickly "read" the girl and make himself fit what will effect her - gentleman, bad boy, so on... But in your case - since you are looking for a love - you should not do this, because if you are being anything other than yourself, it's a lie, and your true self comes out eventually.

Again, not all women are the same, and the situations are different, so I don't know of PW's affairs, but many women become involved with a married man because he portrays his marriage as broken, and himself as some victim. The woman becomes involved because she feels she is "saving" him from some loveless situation (which of course he never ends up leaving).

As far as the "alpha-man" statement. It is true, and then not. Most women do not want a weak man (of course there are some who love a weak-minded man they can manipulate!). I would not say he has to be the alpha male, per se, in the traditional sense, but simply with confidence. Do not talk to women about your insecurities and your "problems" in life when you are first trying to win her attention. You should come across as happy, independent, successful (and I do not mean in the financial sense), confident, calm, cool. Make yourself something that a woman would like to be a part of, not something she feels she would have to improve or fix.

Maybe Pierre can answer better on the specific points (if he does not become annoyed ), I have a feeling in your writing you misunderstand some things about us! I hope it makes sense...

rafale,
i have seen enough assholes date multiple women - like u said, they know how to present as what certain women want, and they never fall in love...
i was naive once - watched too much romantic movies maybe...the problem is i went after women i liked - how to pretend to be disinterested? yet the most beautiful girl approached me because i was disinterested - as her boyfriend was my friend. I was stupid because i valued honesty - i did not 'tease' her but i talked 'normally' like myself, and stayed away coz i value friendship.
1. i never ask opinion from girls because they always point u in wrong direction. Example - they will say they like men who are funny, they don't care about money. But their action speaks louder than words - we live, and learn. this is because although deep inside she knows what she wants, in public she always talks like this about character etc - of course this is to ensure people have 'high' image of women - but as i said, a woman's action speaks louder than words.
2. ur advice - be urself, many women tell this stupid advice also. If i want to be myself, i will go to job interview wearing t shirt and jeans - is that right? when u do a job interview, u wear a suit, u tell interviewer what they want to hear. If u talk honestly - sorry, no job.
3. i was alone in a room with a girl recently - i touched her hand, both of us drunk - she said ' i wanna go home'. i immediately sent her home - should i have kissed her like PW does to push further? - u know what happened to mike tyson, dominque strauss kahn? The legal system nowadays - if a girl don't like the way u kiss - u can sit in jail/lose ur job.

5. so many times before i had opportunity to be evil like above but i tried to follow right path - but everytime the girl thinks probably i'm 'weak' because other men always 'impress' them, never tellng unpleasant honest things. Finally now i want to understand the 'customer' better. If i make a good movie and show no one will watch (eg seven samurai vs star wars, red beard). but if i put explosions and fake special effects like 'transformers' -women know it's a lie but they pay much money to watch it. So i will see what makes women (customer) like and act accordingly - no more love, no more honesty, so i need woodman's thoughts about women - but still i want to only marry and have a family. If still does not work - either i will go paris and work under woodman or go to bhutan and become a monk. So master P if u don't want me to come there and replace alain delon give me some advice on what and how u use ur brain with women...thanks.

1. You are right, most girls will lie to an extent. No doubt many want security, it's true! Here in the USA, there are as many men who are the same, happy to find a woman to work for him so he can be lazy. So, I understand you. But, look, I am not a child or some 18 year old girl who does not know what it is she wants. I have nothing to gain from what I am speaking to you. I am not trying to make you feel better about yourself, or make myself look good. I'm honest here because it's easy to speak about everything hidden behind a computer. The problem for both of us - men and women - is to sort through the acres of bullshit people that are seeking only to gain for themselves and find someone genuine that is worth spending a lifetime with and investing some emotion in. The man I am with now, it's true, he has money, and often I hate this, because I know what people think. It makes me sick I can't relax over this one point because too many bitches in the world are using men for this reason. I can live easy. Stop work, do whatever I want. But I am not this type of person. I started shoveling horse crap from barns when I was 14 years old, and I have provided for myself nearly as long. I pay my own bills, my own wants and needs, and while I cannot afford to offer the same luxuries to love that he offers to me, I still remain overly generous. I am not saying this so you cane say "wow isn't Rafale wonderful" because I am not bothered what you think of me. My point is that I am not the only female on earth with this thinking. There are many many more. The problem, you are not going to find them at a club or a party getting drunk, because they are busing accomplishing things in there life, not waiting for some man to pick them up and give them an easy life. To my point, I met my love when I was on a business trip to Dubai - in the hotel restaurant - not out in a bar. The problem is that you are getting the right advice from the wrong women.

2. If you do not understand the difference in a relationship and a job, then you are ready for neither. It's a very bad comparison. You boss is not the one that has to accept you when you are in a bad mood, or take care of you when you are sick. You will not lay with him at night (I hope).

3. No, you did the right thing. When it comes to alcohol especially, don't play this game. You are 100% right, the laws are made to allow women to act like whores one night and then punish the man the next day when she regrets her actions. Not everyone can keep a camera handy like PW.

4. I don't know your culture, or the culture of the girl you were dating, but this is a big problem right now. There is a big mix between the old and new. It's complicated even for younger women and men in the culture where these arrangements are being made. So, if she is not of the same culture, good chance she did not understand. There is also the chance she was simply looking for an excuse to leave. I don;t know enough of her or the situation. My bf's first marriage was arranged - and ended after 20 years - with never love between them.

5. Sure, don't come across as weak! But are you telling me there is no logical reason for a woman to want to be with you unless you add many special effects? There has to be something - the fact you are good an honest. But do not confuse this with being meek.

Pierre, I hope, will give you better advice...

again i give u all example of talk vesus action - husband is big businessman - coincidence....ok, this guy even married before - that actually does not matter either does it-is there a lack of single men who were not married before in USA???
-guys, when girl talk they use frontal cortex, when they act they will always use their primitive brain.
-if an honest poor man who is never married comes to a girl, versus a businessman with 10 wives - u all know who the girl will pick - she will tell you otherwise, but action, gentlemen, speaks louder than words...u all know what scarface said - get money,then power, then all women follow you.
-now i understand, why many eastern culture don't let women study or go to work - because that's when they become arrogant and stupid. If their father/brother finds the man for her, they will find an honorable man. if you give her education - she will go and marry gangster/businessman with many wives and spoil family name. Or she will marry a normal guy and give him hell.
-in those days man work, women care for children, and dogs stayed outside the house. Now, dogs are sitting on the couch, women are running companies, and man sit outside house like dog - and paris has become little egypt, this is the world now.

I must unfortunately agree with your last sentence !!!

PW