gandhi wrote:In porn, like in prostitution, women are a commodity. They have no rights. With the exception of some stars in the business, they are worth basically nothing. They have to take it and thats it. We give awards to those, who are willing to endure the most. Thats a win win for us, isnt it? Some make it, most of them get spit out fast, and have to live with their experiences.
They have no agent who cares, no one who looks out for them. When a scene goes wrong, or not as they thought it would, what shall they do? They are exposed, naked, nervous, confused and just dont know how to deal with that situation. It takes a lot of courage to act out and maybe end the scene. You know that. We all know that. Will they still get paid? Will they have done it all for nothing? Will they have to be afraid of any serious consequences? Will they be allowed to leave? Will it get even worse for them? But then thats exactly what we want to see, right? Women taken by surprise, to see how they will react. But women can endure much, really much. And there are people out there, like you Pierre, who abuse this fact. Some even to to most painful extent. (eg Rocco, Max Hardcore, and what the hell else!)

And today all of this is possible. We came to a point where women in life have more power, more rights and are more independent than ever before. Thank goodness for that! But what scares many men now is this certain loss of control over women. We feel confused. We feel lost somehow. We feel threatened.

So when it comes to porn, all of these developments can be reversed. Everyman's dream can be fullfilled. Even the most rotten fantasies can be realized with profit nowadays and it gets worse every day. What was yesterday gets boring today. This scares me alot. When i think of those confused and poor individuals caught in this net it breaks my heart. But thats just how it is.
Porn is for us men - its jut like that. And most of them want to see women degraded, submissive, humiliated, slapped, beaten, treated like a dog, at our constant service, like a puppet with a constant grin on their faces. We want to see them down begging for more.

When it comes to professional porn actresses, for some of them it may be ok, some might enjoy it even. But only if they get lucky really.

Pierre, you are by far not the worst of the bunch, but what bothers me gravely is this special gonzo style. As far as I know you are not dealing with professionals and thats exactly your angle and the point i want to make. Those young, and most importantly extremely cheap women are, as i believe, mostly clueless of your true intentions. Yes, the econimic situation in these former Soviet states is a real pity. So whats easier than to profit from their misery. Some get caught in a prostitution ring abroad, some make it to you. Businesswise its a perfect deal for you. Investment is low - profit is huge. What happens then is beyond their control basically. They get exposed to a situation that is completely new to them and becomes overwhelming quickly. What follows then is up to your mercy really. Even if some come prepared for sex, dont turn it into a nightmare for them.

I doubt Melissa Ria truely enjoyed your time together. And what you did to Samy Omidee was torture, plain and simple. Beating her madly while having to lick your stinking ass, beating her while having to suck your cock at the same time, and finally pissing all over her. Have you lost it??? Not even the most experienced and numbed down porn stars can weather through such hatred without proper preparation and pay. (I believe that was all for her refusing to do anal. Thats a high price to pay if you ask me.) There is a market for everything. But that doesnt mean you can do anything. Those gruesome images haunt me still.

Whatever it is, that drives you to do this work - try psychotherapy instead. It might do wonders to those control issues of yours. Dont let your anger and your insecurities out on those innocent girls. But if you must do porn: I urge you: Dont forget your consience. Show a little empathy. Dont exploit the weakest.

Atisz wrote:
I totally agree with you.

Not long ago porn was about people doing sex and loving it - now it's about exploitation. There is a huge difference between being a mainstream porn star and becoming another loser, who will try to hide her porn past for the rest of her life. Sure some of them may even enjoy it for a while (besides the easy money), but unfortunately when the time comes to get a decent job and to have a child everything turns upside down.
It is truly sad that post communist countries are still in such state that girls can be bribed into porn for small change. Then of course there's a huge chance of them becoming prostitutes (or as some people call it 'escorts') and they sank even deeper.

Sadly there isn't much to be done, when they realize this - it's already too late. The best way to efficiently prevent it is to talk about it.