1)- What does it mean "salap" in english?
Or "salop"? So often u say this 
Also i wanted to share some thoughts.
Dunno, i think my problem is that i am too sweet with a girl as a boy. I think when 2 persons are in love, so there will be always more sweet sex, more gentle, with a lot of kissing and so. But i know that in their dreams most of the girls want sometime to do some harder stuff, i think my girlfriend also, but i cant to do that! I cant play bad boy, thats hard for me omg. Just cant slap her and talk badly, but i know also that with time it could be a problem. Should i change something in my mind or are there some techniques for that? Or mb there should be some iniciative from the girl?
My point of view is that sex is not about orgasms only, mb i am too young (22) and with time i will notice, that good orgasms means good sex and good family. But right at the moment maximum from me is passion, and i am afraid that this could become a problem in the future, if i wont be able to play bad boy sometimes. So the girl would may search for somebody who will provide this things to her, and i think that risk is real..
Thank you in advance.
