So don't change but don't complain if you can't get what you want...

PW

hey PW, not complaining, becoz i did get girls although single digit number. only thing it took months for me. thats it ! keep cool man.

hey PW, not complaining, becoz i did get girls although single digit number. only thing it took months for me. thats it ! keep cool man.

it's better when it takes hours no?

sk11983 wrote: if a guy is nice like me, and generally likes to respect people,.....how can i be like be a bad guy or rather "not so good guy" at a sudden moment.

Man what you said above is simply not true, let me tell you I used to be the most nice dumb-ass guy with every girl I met, and always ended in the undesirable "friend zone"...I realized the hard way that beautiful girls don't like "too nice guys" so I decided to change my perspective...I don't mean becoming a jerk neither a "bad boy", so please don't go out and start taking drugs and beating up your dates what I mean is that you need to have a relax/chill out state of mind and STOP caring what girls think about you this will eliminate the fear of rejection and therefore you will have many more chances to pick up a beautiful girl! If you care what she thinks of you, then you're probably going to start acting like a total Pussy/nice/dumb-ass, and you're going to screw things up INSTANTLY. Most of the time we tend to screwed it up because we made that girl (I mean the girl you wanna fuck) "too important" mentally. In other words, when things started to get difficult, instead of taking the attitude of "NEXT", a "nice" guy CLING act NEEDY and becomes a pussy!...so man if you wanna improve your score you have to do something and definitely you need to change the "nice guy" attitude. Cheers!!

Acting like a real man doesnt mean acting like a jerk, or being mean or direspectful to women.

Its all about being :
-cocky
-not needy
-funny

You can still be a nice guy, its a good thing, but being nice doesnt mean you have to be a wimp who lost his balls in the process.