Pierre, you've been working with 20yo girls all your life. What is the difference, in terms of attitude, values, perspective on life, openneness (or anything else) between the 20yo of 1993 and those of 2023?

Well to be short the 2023 version lives on their mobiles phones while the 1993 was able to seat in a restaurant and speak about great things for hours !!!
The new generation brain is corrupt with a lot of bugs in the synapses ...

PW

I fucking hate that, when you do the effort, to choose a nice cosy restaurant with top service, top style, top table, top ambiance, and the girl still seems to get bored fast after 3 minutes, and keep her fucking nose into her fucking smartphone, fucking "diva attitude", i say it's a total waste of time, and energy, and money, to try to make "big impression" to a pretty girl in 2023, no need to lose time, McDonald's for all of them !!!!

And their attitude about porn ou sex in général? In those days, you had to be pretty sure you wanted to do this, there were much less girls and the probability to be recognized was high, while today it seems to be much more common?

Or am I minimizing the stigma related to having been in porn?

It's not about porn it's about human been in general !!! Today people are living via social medias and 80 % of the youth use drugs. To that you must had a stress concerning the lack of jobs and a total empty educative mode from the 80's generation and then you have people without any "code life" ignoring what means many things having value for me but not them ...

PW

I can fully accept that the world is always changing and there is no "real" right or wrong. Born about 1960 I spent 40 years without any internet and social media and even today I use social media quite rarely and find conversation with people always fiddling with their smart phones highly annoying.

But on the other side people born about 2000 have a life with internet and social media always around them and fiddling with their smart phones is quite normal and no problem at all.

At the end of the day I see 2 options:

1) I accept the modern times and ignore what annoys me.

or

2) I pay a girl to spent time with me and that means she has to switch off the smart phone to get payed.

For every problem there is a solution ....

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 28, 2023 6:35 pm

Well to be short the 2023 version lives on their mobiles phones while the 1993 was able to seat in a restaurant and speak about great things for hours !!!
The new generation brain is corrupt with a lot of bugs in the synapses ...

PW

A great summary, Pierre. Up until about 10 years ago, I as an older bachelor used to see teens hanging around street corners with "nothing to do" at night, almost like the 1950s! It may sound weird, but girls would sometimes say Hi to me as I rode a mountain bike around in my 50s. We would have actual interesting chats. That is all gone now. I can't imagine investing in someone who wanders around the house almost always talking to others on the phone.

Jean wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 28, 2023 9:00 pm

I fucking hate that, when you do the effort, to choose a nice cosy restaurant with top service, top style, top table, top ambiance, and the girl still seems to get bored fast after 3 minutes, and keep her fucking nose into her fucking smartphone, fucking "diva attitude", i say it's a total waste of time, and energy, and money, to try to make "big impression" to a pretty girl in 2023, no need to lose time, McDonald's for all of them !!!!

"McDonald's for all of them !!!!"
A great quote, Jean.
Maybe a worse fate than
"She is for the streets!"

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 29, 2023 6:38 am

It's not about porn it's about human been in general !!! Today people are living via social medias and 80 % of the youth use drugs. To that you must had a stress concerning the lack of jobs and a total empty educative mode from the 80's generation and then you have people without any "code life" ignoring what means many things having value for me but not them ...

PW

A few years ago, I asked a guy who was probably in his 40s or early 50s how fast his Porsche could go.
It sounded like an underpowered one.
He said, "It is all about Image."
That might be good in porn, but not as a lifestyle.

Yeah right !!!

PW