Many are dogs, but not this one. Unless he has found love with a camel, there is no opportunity, either! I think you see I'm quite realistic. I do plenty of investigating. If I was not sure, I would not make the statement, but on this I am sure, or I would not have become involved to begin with!

Even if he stops alone in Algeria, he stays in touch with me all the time by his own choosing - and there also, he has no opportunity. The women will not risk physical harm -possible death - from their husband/father/brother to have sex with a man that will not marry them. Plus he is too respected in the area to be caught in this situation. He owns many businesses and properties there, and he is overly concerned with his clean reputation.

The same for me, I don't have sex with any other man. I don't go out with them, or call them. The worst I do is to come here, and I am sure he does some similar thing. It's understandable. It becomes very lonely with 6 weeks at a time to have 8 hours between us!

Many things I see similar in you two, but I can read a little into your personality in the few months I am here, and there are even more differences. My bf is very focused on some particular goals in our life, and he is of an age (3 years younger than you) where he is thinking more of what he wants for his future and retirement. Our relationship is love for him, but also an investment (you can't remove this thought from the mind of an Algerian). Who will be the one to take care of him when he is old and needs help? He knows if he keeps his loyalties and takes care of me now (which is a small task in actuality), he never has to worry for his future. The sacrifices and changes he has made to his life are not risks he would take if he was fooling around and could lose all his investment.

With his money, it's not a problem to find a much more beautiful woman, or someone who is more open-minded to let him run with other woman if he likes, but he did not choose these options. He is thinking more logical, and farther down the road.

Maybe in the world where you run, yes it's true, but down here in the real world, there are still some men like my bf. I see nothing wrong with how you choose to live, you are open and honest. You are not hurting anyone. Simply, this lifestyle is not appealing for everyone, that's all.

I think this conversation is not the one we should start, it's like the World Trade Center !!!
I know there are men totaly correct and never goes with another girls, I know some of them but since 25 years I have a "trick" to prouve the girl 1000 % sure of their man that 98 time on 100 it works as I said ! But about sex only not love ! women are more invest in the psycho and heart part when they do sex than men who just need to make their balls empty and still love like crazy their girlfriends ! until a girl can understand and accept this idea, she will never cry ! but if she trust the fairy tell, then she will have hard time one day ...
Dido Angel for instance didn't want listen me for 5 years about it, and this year she found out I was right from beginning ! life is not what we think when we are young !

PW

I love to know your "trick" simply to prove you wrong. I know its true with many men. It's one reason in my life I've hopped in bed with only two. I rather be over cautions, I have always know in the past if I am not the only one.

I will have nothing to cry over with this man. I am sure of this more than I am sure of anything.

This is my best wishes for you ! If we stay in touch for long time, as always, time will give all answers !

PW

I will stay in touch with you simply for this fact. Sophie and I will park your wheelchairs next to each other years from now so the "twins" can talk and she and I will go for lunch!

I cross my fingers !!!

PW