drug addiction is a serious problem and honestly i think you cannot help such a person. it can also backfire on you, as you have stated, eg. when she will make accusation (like you are her pimp) or steal something for you. it is in the responsilbility of her family and close friends to help her but not yours. i would stop working with her. maybe that will make her think a little bit.

I agree with previous post.
the only thing you can do is to send them to family, or tell family( if they care).
but psychatrist and addiction doctors are the only help.
don't waste your energy and soul, you can't help.sorry

totoro wrote:I agree with previous post.
the only thing you can do is to send them to family, or tell family( if they care).
but psychatrist and addiction doctors are the only help.
don't waste your energy and soul, you can't help.sorry

Ves. You're right all of you. But is fuckin shameless, and pathetic to explain yourself, you only wanted to help. Why I should talk to the parents of an adult person coming to me, and wanting to do porn? Why I have to tell them, and make them sad, when they're looking at me as to the worst enemy of them?
As model manager I had to go every time at they're family, or at the police to solve some problems, I cannnot?
In this world, nobody cares about prevention of problems, only about solving them the most easiest way possible, when they arrive...

you do it because you are an adult, that's all.
but I wouldn't go, I would give a call.they will have to do the step, not you.as you said,"prevention", it is their issue..
and you dont do that for them, you do it for yourself.you are a clean guy and you quit thinking about their problems

I've been sended an email to Sandysmodels agency to tell them to about the situation of this lady. They were the only agency I could trust, and to have a normal, corect partnership in the past 4 years. What you think it was they're answer? Ricardo if this is your decision, why we skould get the same one? Our clients are asking for her, we didn't had the same problems with her, why we should'nt make her working. It is she's problem what she do with her money, not our.
So probably they're right. Economically for sure...

I know most people here think it is not your responsbility. But I think you can make one last effort by telling somebody in her family or friend who cares for her. Maybe they can convince her to go to rehab facility. Not sure if they have those in Hungary.

I agree with the last post.
I know it is hard man
remember the worst than could happen is that you are maybe saving her life, even if people tell you bad words

Sorry, but I don't have any infos, about her family, any contact to them. The girls are adults, and verry sensibil on all this kind of private things. 8 months ago she was 22 y old, when she was coming to my office asking for to do porn. Secondly I tried, and I've been written a letter to the parents of an other ex model, which is in the same situation as she, they're taking usually the drugs together. The ex model's father don't even wanted to talk to me, cuz I'm a bad guy who made her daughter working in porn before. He don't even talked to her daughter about this problem, he only forwarded my letter to the psycholog of the girl to take care about. Because of this, the girl left she's parents she hate me together with the other one, and they're living together now, and they're doing they're parties double time more than before.I think I've been made all the possible preventional issues on this, until other agencies are happy to can use this situation, and parents doesn't care, what I can do, is only to pray to not be a longterm disease, and to have luck, they'll remain with enough brain to realise later, what I did, I did to save them.

you did everything you had to.
you are not their father.