I guess I need to explain why I was so upset. Long before the internet, facebook, twitter, etc., I grew up in a suburb of a medium sized city in the US. Like every city, there was prostitution. One weekend, the prosecuter tried something different. That weekend, they arresed the "johns", and made their names and mug shots available to the local paper. The paper ran a story on the front page with their pictures. It caused a huge uproar because half of the men arrested were middle-aged men with families and had children in school. The kids were taunted with
"Hey, what's the matter, can't your mom have sex anymore? How come your dad needs to get some strange stuff." Some dads were teachers or were deacons at a church. The anger was so great from everyone, that stores threatened to pull their advertising, and the Mayor was told he could never get money for his re-election. The paper stopped it.
Why they did it is partly due to our culture and religion. For some (not all), there is sex, and there is
dirty sex. For some women - - "Don't you ever dare try to put that thing in my mouth.
And even for men too. I remember a scene from the criticaly acclaimed TV drama "The Sopranos". Mob boss Tony Soprano was on the couch with his therapist. She asked him why he had a mistress, since he had a loving wife. He answered:
"Because I will never stick my dick in the mouth of the woman whose lips kiss my children good night before putting them to bed."
Maybe it is difficult for you Europeans to understand that, but that is the way it was in America. And to some extant, still is.