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First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 11:48 am
by Dietcoke
Hi . I 've seen loads of woodman casting videos and wow , the power he delivers and the passion in his films is just powerful .
Well i am 19 and i 've stayed clean from girls due to Boarding School ( all male ) etc . But now i have a girlfriend and she thinks i am sexually active which i am not . She will be my first . All i wanna know is .
How not to fuck it up ? .

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:06 pm
by rafale
DietCoke,

I am sure the men can give you some good suggestions. I want to tell you from a woman's perspective: I was 21 when I first had sex. It was so horrible. I really never wanted to do it again. Part of it for me was the guilt factor (I even ended up marrying the guy for this reason) but also because he was just a selfish person and he only cared of his own pleasure. During our short marriage, I avoided to have sex at all cost because I hated it and even after our divorce, though I dated some, it took some time and the perfect man to get me to try it again.

So, the fact you are even thinking of her, and coming here for advice is a huge difference in the type of person you are.

The best I can tell you, take your time. There is no rush. The more time you can take stimulating her externally, the better... then use your fingers.... just work your way up to it. You have to be confident, too, focus on how she is feeling, and don't worry about messing it up. If you care about how she enjoys it, that's half the battle.

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:13 pm
by Dietcoke
rafale wrote:
The best I can tell you, take your time. There is no rush. The more time you can take stimulating her externally, the better... then use your fingers.... just work your way up to it. You have to be confident, too, focus on how she is feeling, and don't worry about messing it up. If you care about how she enjoys it, that's half the battle.

The thing is i would prefer a womans advice to mans because i want to put her before me . I 've done other stuff with other girls but i always put their pleasure before mine .
Do you have any tips or techniques that could help me out ? .

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:35 pm
by PIERRE WOODMAN
So ask Rafale, she's a female maestro for sure !!!

PW

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:42 pm
by Dietcoke
PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:So ask Rafale, she's a female maestro for sure !!!

PW

but then some advice coming from you wouldn't hurt either

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:57 pm
by Mark Marcus
When you watch Pierre in action, you learn a lot ! 8-)
The way he use his hands and the magic of cunnilingus.
( Once I gave a girl an orgasm just fondling actually !)

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:17 pm
by Kopf
you should do a lot of kissing an foreplay at the beginning to prepare her and maker hot - then go for it!

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:35 pm
by rafale
Dietcoke wrote:Do you have any tips or techniques that could help me out ? .
What the guys are saying is true, a lot of foreplay. You can tell if she is turned on, and lubricated enough. One thing I have come across before is a guy that has no clue where the clitoris is located so he just mashes how and rubs the whole general area :roll: . That's really not a best approach. So, understanding a little bit of anatomy is good. I think if you are watching these videos, you are miles ahead of most guys your age. Mark is right, fondling is good - but don't put yourself to too much pressure because some women can orgasm from this, like he said, but not all. Some women can actually "think" themselves to orgasm, some it takes the right stimulation.

I am sure I don't have to say it, but starting with some fantastic oral sex is the way to go, too. I really can't say a specific things you can do for her, because other than what you see Pierre doing, which is really great, we all like some different things. I can tell you what I love, but maybe she will not like it, I don't know for sure!

Please let me know what happens or if I can explain something better!

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:39 pm
by PIERRE WOODMAN
Oral sex is a good key for both side in sex ! Take your time, wait she come and then she's yours but be sure she's not too much "broken" by the orgasm before to do a remake of the "battle of Fort Alamo" !!!

PW

Re: First Time . Help ?

Posted: Mon Oct 31, 2011 8:05 pm
by alexus
lick her butt and push in there thats what my first boyfriend did to me and I never forget. :D