Hi woodman.

I am a college student, I think I am handsome, better than most guys.

Mostly when I am walking on street girls stare to me. In college, in class always girls realize me.

But when I start to talking with them they lost their all interest about me and just want to go away.

What I can do about that?

May I ask, can you give an example how such a conversation might go? To give us a better idea...

rafale wrote:May I ask, can you give an example how such a conversation might go? To give us a better idea...

For example I tell you about one girl. In the first week she always watched me and second week I asked her for course lesson, and what is your major, and and like what movies, tv shows and like that. When I tried to talk with her she lost interest and didn't stare me again.

Not only that, but I talked with some girls some different topics to.
Sometimes I think my voice is bad, or anything else.


Here I want to ask you some deeper question:

Girls hook up with ugly guys to punish handsome (or good, nice) guys.
Is there something like that?

Mmmm... that's a first for me, to hear this. No, of course we sometimes date a guy just to piss off an ex...

This question is very difficult, because without standing face to face with you, I cannot accurately deduce what you might be doing wrong (if anything).

Some of these girls are in your classes, yes? So they must hear you speak in the class, and are still showing interest, so I think maybe you are just being sensitive about your voice. Do you have some close female friends? Or girls friends of your friends? How are they acting toward you?

Pirateguy, have you tried to do the snobs? Try to be cool and detached, to us women a little bit like "running after the boys" and be a little "battered ".....

pirateguy wrote:Hi woodman.

I am a college student, I think I am handsome, better than most guys.

Mostly when I am walking on street girls stare to me. In college, in class always girls realize me.

But when I start to talking with them they lost their all interest about me and just want to go away.

What I can do about that?

Do you brush your teeth at least once a day?

Yes because I heard with a smile like that it's more difficult !!!
PW

Booz wrote: Do you brush your teeth at least once a day?

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:Yes because I heard with a smile like that it's more difficult !!!

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PW

god you drop your hand

rafale wrote:Mmmm... that's a first for me, to hear this. No, of course we sometimes date a guy just to piss off an ex...

This question is very difficult, because without standing face to face with you, I cannot accurately deduce what you might be doing wrong (if anything).

Some of these girls are in your classes, yes? So they must hear you speak in the class, and are still showing interest, so I think maybe you are just being sensitive about your voice. Do you have some close female friends? Or girls friends of your friends? How are they acting toward you?

Yes I am talking with some girls who I am not interested, it is ok but any girl I interested is very hard to talk and when we talk for me it is no more chance to be with her. For that reason sometimes I really like some girls but I don't talk to them, because any girl I talk, they find a guy for themselves.
Anyway, Thanks so much for reply.

ladyoscar.h wrote:Pirateguy, have you tried to do the snobs? Try to be cool and detached, to us women a little bit like "running after the boys" and be a little "battered ".....

Not so much.

Booz wrote:
Do you brush your teeth at least once a day?

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:Yes because I heard with a smile like that it's more difficult !!!

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PW

Yes, I brush my teeth twice, there is no problem about body, or physical.

Maybe girls see me a nice guy, I am not sure about that.


And after all, the most incense me is I see the girl is single, for maybe 5 weeks, I don't see any guy around her, but whenever I talk her, try to chat up her, they immediately try to find another guy. I don't know why.

I find very hard to believe that an handsome guy could have trouble with girls, and that girls would look all the time at him but lose interest as soon as he opens his mouth.

It is very possible to seduce girls without being handsome, but when you are, you barely don't have to do anything, girls (not every girls but a lot of her) will dig you regardless of your conversation skills. You could stuff hamsters on your weekends or talking all the time about motorboats, if you have a nice face most girls won't gives a fuck.

That's why I think that you probably judge yourself too kindly, which is a common thing among men (whereas girls tend to see themself worse than they really are), and that you're not that handsome.

I'm not saying that to upset you, this just is the only explaination I see.