When I first saw you during the interview I perceived you as a dominant force ( the way you positioned yourself, the calm and composed manner of answering) and didn't expect this to change, so by writing your journey I now can understand how He took you down to your submissive state.
For me, a girl who gives in to her needs and/or finds her inner self in submission, becomes irresistible, she awakens my inner self as a dominant partner.
Being prey is one of your kinks?
A dominant for you has to be on a higher level, surpass you, because of your own dominance?
Or does He have to be able to trigger your kinks and fantasies?
Thank you for a response
I think the most powerful kinks are often the ones you don’t fully understand or even realize you have. For example, I never expected that “feeling like the prey” would turn me on as much as it does.
I once read that, over the centuries, women developed certain instincts to help them survive and adapt to dangerous situations. For instance, when one tribe fought another, the victors would often kill all the men of the defeated tribe, as well as the older women. The younger, more attractive women would be taken and forced to have children with them. It’s obviously a deeply traumatic history, but the theory is that women developed psychological strategies to endure those moments. Arousal and attachment, in that context, may have been survival mechanisms.
I read some other crazy stat that says that a high percentage of women experience an orgasm during r***, which adds to the trauma of the women who experience it, because it makes them question their own feelings. Whereas the body simply does that to protect the woman and the potential offspring.
"It seems the key to success is motivation. So that's perfect because thanks to all of you who have supported me for 17 years here, I am extremely motivated."
Thank you Maya, for you're thoughts on my questions.
I agree. Submissive behavior can give freedom to give in to fantasies.
Hands held behind the back or being tied up for example, makes someone open up to kinks, because in their mind they are under control, have to give in. They have an excuse, it's not theirs to decide what happens. It could be a coping mechanism as you write (tribal women developed psychological strategies to endure those moments. Arousal and attachment, in that context, may have been survival mechanisms).
Example:
Long ago, my dearest girlfriend went on a blind date, later on they went to a secluded place, before she knew it she was pinned down and 2 extra men came in, raping her in a violent way. Even though she reported this to the police nothing came from it. She was traumatized.
Later on she began having flashbacks but instead of nightmares she got highly excited by these dreams, feeling guilty in the process, but she could not help but feel excited.
Now she has accepted this and even draws pleasure from it.
Thank you Maya, for you're thoughts on my questions.
I agree. Submissive behavior can give freedom to give in to fantasies.
Hands held behind the back or being tied up for example, makes someone open up to kinks, because in their mind they are under control, have to give in. They have an excuse, it's not theirs to decide what happens. It could be a coping mechanism as you write (tribal women developed psychological strategies to endure those moments. Arousal and attachment, in that context, may have been survival mechanisms).
Example:
Long ago, my dearest girlfriend went on a blind date, later on they went to a secluded place, before she knew it she was pinned down and 2 extra men came in, raping her in a violent way. Even though she reported this to the police nothing came from it. She was traumatized.
Later on she began having flashbacks but instead of nightmares she got highly excited by these dreams, feeling guilty in the process, but she could not help but feel excited.
Now she has accepted this and even draws pleasure from it.
Hm, I feel sorry for her because what happened to her is not ok ... the fact that she "accepted" it sends the wrong signal to a lot of men who don't understand what consent is. Your story might encourage some men to do it anyways because she "will eventually accept it", which is awful.
There is a big difference between actual rape and a rape scenario. I hope you agree.
There is a big difference between actual rape and a rape scenario. I hope you agree.
More than obvious !!!
PW
"It seems the key to success is motivation. So that's perfect because thanks to all of you who have supported me for 17 years here, I am extremely motivated."
Thank you Maya, for you're thoughts on my questions.
I agree. Submissive behavior can give freedom to give in to fantasies.
Hands held behind the back or being tied up for example, makes someone open up to kinks, because in their mind they are under control, have to give in. They have an excuse, it's not theirs to decide what happens. It could be a coping mechanism as you write (tribal women developed psychological strategies to endure those moments. Arousal and attachment, in that context, may have been survival mechanisms).
Example:
Hm, I feel sorry for her because what happened to her is not ok ... the fact that she "accepted" it sends the wrong signal to a lot of men who don't understand what consent is. Your story might encourage some men to do it anyways because she "will eventually accept it", which is awful.
There is a big difference between actual rape and a rape scenario. I hope you agree.
Let it be very clear : What they did to her should have never happened.
No man has the right to do what they did!
She does not “accept” and it took her years to get over it.
We were talking about a coping mechanism and I wondered if it might be related.
That said, some men DO know how to inspire a woman to go above and beyond of her own free will … and Pierre is definitely one of them
Which reminds me of great sports coaching: if a coach has to torture the players, it’s useless and always backfires. But if he or she gets them to torture themselves … now that’s magic.
