Many thanks pierre as i predicted the stupid world of twitter and facebook, you cant have a private life if your on there, yes whilst its good to promote stuff the amount of shit and the jealousy of some on there says it all. The reason why im not on there or facebook and never will. Lexi do your blog and you will be fine dont bother with the haters.

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:I think she was clear in her msg and does not wish anymore to be bored by humans ...

PW

She prefers Cyborgs !!!

I saw this on Adultdvdtalk forum was a reply by Lexi. I think this answers why Lexi decided to leave twitter and facebook and social media, the fact that someone stalked her on a train or followed her on a beach does sound complete madness.

It's easy to sit back and say us girls need to get a thicker skin and take the good with the bad etc but it's easier said than done. I get that a lot of girls enter this industry because they want to become "famous" in their field and obviously being in the public eye attracts comments on all aspects of your life - good and bad. The problem here is that I never wanted that, i'm not a fame chaser, if I was I would have appeared on several reality TV shows by now (I have been asked to) or sold seedy embellished kiss and tells. I'm actually a VERY private person and like i've said in several interviews I keep my work and private life very seperate. The problem with social media is it eats into your private life. Tweets, facebook messages and emails come through 24 hours a day and eat into my private time. People get angry and send rude messages if they feel like you haven't replied to them quick enough and accuse you of being stuck up and not caring about your fans.

Or I post a picture and someone calls me a fat slag, a prostitute, a fucking whore or tells me to suck their dick with attached picture of said dick. A flippant comment or "hilarious" joke maybe but times these comments by 10-20 every single day and eventually the negativity builds up. I'm not the type of person who needs people constantly kissing my ass or stroking my ego, but on the flip side I also don't need daily negativity and abuse from randomers. In the words of the ever philiosophical Samantha Bentley "Hey hey keyboard warrior, would you say that to my face?" - the answer is probably not, anonymous keyboard warriors are the bane of my life.

Social media has created a monster. Where-as before models could be these untouchable unicorn like creatures social media has created a platform where we are as accessible as your next door neighbour. In a lot of instances this can be a blessing - fan interaction is hugely important in a declining market but it also makes you an easy target for misogynists, jealous bitches, people venting on a bad day and just general childish twats.

This is without mentioning the safety hazards of social media, I have been followed onto a train by a fan when I made it a little too obvious which train station I was delayed at and just a few weeks ago I tweeted a picture of me at a local beach. I thought the scenery was non descript enough that nobody would recognise which beach I was at but later that night I was tweeted about 10 pictures of me shot on an Iphone by somebody that had followed me around for what appeared to be the best part of 2 hours.

I just want to enjoy doing my scenes and keep a nice balance between work and my private life, it's not front page news, i'm just that rare breed of performer who doesn't like the limelight 24 hours a day - there are a few of us around

Lexi x

Well stated, Lexi! You, and all others, deserve a private life. I believe using the new instant messaging apps lends itself to an invasion of that privacy. I think you are right in limiting your use of it.

Very good news to hear that Lexi has not quit, she is very natural in all of her scenes and seems to enjoy them. She is becoming one of my favourite stars. Will she be filming anymore scenes for Woodman Casting as the last Woodman scene is by far my favourite scene

If I had one porn wish it would be for you to meet her again and convince her for a DP.
As you said, she is super cool. Hopefully you meet Samantha Bentley too.